I’ve been incredibly unreliable lately. 
It’s hard to be there for people who are going through hard times when you, yourself, are going through some. 
I would love more than anything to be there for my friends or relatives who are struggling, but I can’t handle it. 
At the risk of sounding selfish, I’m drained enough from my own issues and don’t have the strength to help others at this point in time. 
The people I am referring to will probably never see this, but I truly am sorry for being unable to keep my word of being there when they need me.

I need to work through my own issues before I can help them with theirs.